For as long as I remember, I have always been fascinated by the idea of having power over another guy. At first it was not a matter of sexuality, but that changed the moment I (as an 18-year old) got introduced to BDSM – in particular bondage.
Since then the road of BDSM has been on and off in periods with different partners. However, always louring in the background was the urge for and the appeal of the skewed power differential.
In 2011 I found out that I had an Atrium Septum Defect – which is a congenital heart disease. I was told that my life would have most likely not lasted beyond the age of 46 if unnoticed, which put general choices and life in a somewhat different perspective. My partner had for several years been very supportive of me living out my needs in respect to BDSM, but I hadn’t freed my needs and gotten engaged in them as much as I would like at that point. Partly because I had grown pretty big as a side-effect of having the congenital heart disease, but also because I didn’t want to stress my relationship.
After my open heart surgery, I had 6 months in Copenhagen, before life brought my husband and I to London.
London opened up possibilities for me. I got back in touch with my needs and urge for BDSM and found a gay BDSM scene which was both vibrant and had far more possibilities than I had experienced before. Given the possibility to focus on what matters to me, I have chosen to focus on BDSM. Bondage, SM and the lifestyle that this can offer has become what I aim to explore and enjoy even more than before. I enjoyed life in London for almost 10 years before moving back to Copenhagen.
Today – in bondage – I am focusing on the expression of the active male body in ropes. Working with different male body types and different type of turn-ons, amongst others exploring the feeling of flow, subspace, pain, restriction, comfort and meditation, both in suspension, floor and long-term bondage.
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